Gender Equality means Male oppression

 Since childhood I hear that women were oppressed and need support.

Then I got married and tried exhibiting gender equality. I groomed my wife to be a successful entrepreneur. Today she lives seperately and claims to be a self made person who fought gender bias hard to become an entrepreneur.

All the 15 years that she stayed with me, she felt she is my competitor. Why??? Because she was brought up seeing women oppression discussions and importance of gender 'equality'. She was always tought to prove herself to be 'fearless' and fighter against men. So when she married a man, she exhibited her learnings at her best. Despite doing everything possible to groom her like innovating new formula, filing patent for it, investing heavily in it; she never felt that there is any contribution from my side. Why?? Because she was a fighter and a fierce competitor, so she still feels that she outcompeted me that was the sole reason for which she was brought up.

I am a proud father of 2 daughters, but they stay with their mother now after seperation. I am now worried that they will also become fierce competitors in future.

In office once a young lady worker Sent some nasty mails and did some poor work. I scolded her, there was an enquiry on me and the HR head told me that the only reason for this enquiry is because the other person was a young lady.

In family matters Indian law considers male guilty until proven innocent and female innocent until proven guilty.

Are we committing the same mistakes that our ancestors committed against women, only thing is that now it's against men now.